tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post313393686844057640..comments2023-06-16T02:45:28.265-07:00Comments on The Final Maze: Sex and LunchFosterAbbahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11431773317761777407noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-2885925930330804782012-10-27T23:50:11.770-07:002012-10-27T23:50:11.770-07:00To expect a teenager to run straight to her friend...To expect a teenager to run straight to her friend's parents after the friend have done something wrong is just not realistic or reasonable. She did tell you only a day later which to me shows that she is in fact quite mature and responsible and recognizes the problems with the situation. Most teenagers that age would probably have remained quiet out of loyalty to the friend which is very Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-72050430581707808662012-09-21T18:56:18.061-07:002012-09-21T18:56:18.061-07:00Man, the lunch saga sounds exhausting, but it seem...Man, the lunch saga sounds exhausting, but it seems like y'all are handling it very well. Here's hoping she starts to realize she's not going to get a different response on this!<br /><br />On the sex situation . . . frankly, I think Danielle was put in a rotten position and did, if not the 'best' thing, pretty well. The fact that she told you is impressive to me, and suggestsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-2056039335323957582012-09-20T06:07:21.458-07:002012-09-20T06:07:21.458-07:00I get it. I know exactly how/why you are disappoi...I get it. I know exactly how/why you are disappointed in this situation. This is just another example of her immaturity. This is another situation where she could have been a "leader" of sorts and told them to quit having sex, or just startle them into stopping by "waking up" and telling them how inappropriate it was to be having sex with someone else in the room, and Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14612523674452864077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-3331394413037874922012-09-18T20:57:38.274-07:002012-09-18T20:57:38.274-07:00I think it's impressive that she told you abou...I think it's impressive that she told you about the situation at all. Be grateful for a forthcoming teenager who is looking for your guidance in these hard situations. You should realize that and appreciate her instead of shaming her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-50222368222581523612012-09-18T19:04:36.599-07:002012-09-18T19:04:36.599-07:00I think that Danielle actually handled it pretty w...I think that Danielle actually handled it pretty well, she told you in a timely enough manner for the parents to deal with it via the morning after pill. I doubt that I would have told my parents if such a thing had happened when I was her age. As far as the lunch card goes, isn't Danielle eligible for a free lunch as an adopted former foster child with a medical card? Maybe that's Boysmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02484085135905423794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-49468245600119988762012-09-18T13:04:10.430-07:002012-09-18T13:04:10.430-07:00I would have preferred Danielle immediately tell t...I would have preferred Danielle immediately tell the girl's mother.FosterAbbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11431773317761777407noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3882506867316780027.post-44127794893857756452012-09-18T12:56:34.628-07:002012-09-18T12:56:34.628-07:00I have to say that as a teenager I'd find it h...I have to say that as a teenager I'd find it hard to stop people in the room from having sex with each other, to be fair to Danielle. I'm sorry about the situation, but what was she supposed to do, hose them down with cold water?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com